this is related to the last post - there is still something rattling around in my head on that topic (but i promise to let it go for a while after this). i feel a disconnect between what i look like and my taste/style/fashion preferences. if i'm forced to always consider what suits my body or appearance or color, that is letting something dictate my appearance that is not really within my control. i didn't choose my hair, eye, skin color, or body type, yet these things very much effect what looks flattering. i'm definitely guilty of occasionally looking at other people and thinking what tweaks or edits to an ensemble would improve the overall look on a person - but that is entirely based on their outside appearance, how to maximize their assets, etc.
no question, just frustrated.