i often, too too often, notice beautiful, well-groomed and styled women partnered up with unkempt or sartorially disinterested companions. i would never suggest that one’s spouse or partner be maintained like an accessory, but i do find the discrepancy, the inequality of effort to be disconcerting, and i usually interpret it as the woman settling a bit.
do you and your significant others typically have compatible style? what about simply equal levels of investment in appearance? is that important to you?